What we think, we become

What makes you happy? 


It seems that people want more and more and nothing's ever enough. People misinterpret negatively because our brains are programmed to notice trouble, so we can survive, but at the same time we don't notice the good around us. 

Negative feelings are STIMULUS FEELINGS, they work as a wake up alarm and will help you notice, something, that could possibly threat your safety and success. BUT they are not REALITY FEELINGS. They do not tell you what's actually happening.




The feelings describes your attitude towards yourself and your life. 

Only you can have an influence on your attitude. Photographs help me do this.

 

Positive feelings make me happy and more positive energy is drawn by positivity.

Negative feelings are not the same as reality. People tend to underestimate their skills and overestimate negativity and taking them too seriously.

A PERSON IS EMPTY WITHOUT ANY FEELINGS. HERE I AM, thinking and concentrating :D

And if you know what you want to become happier, you have to believe in yourself and you will always find a way to achieve it! 

THINK YOU CAN DO IT AND YOU CAN!

Here are some ways of thinking, which will reduce your opportunities and dim your light:

• Disaster interpretation: "My world is going to crash..."
• Either-or- attitude: "If I don't succeed, I'm a bad person"
• Perfectionism: "Only a perfect performance is good enough, nothing else goes"
• Believing in rumors: "The youngest siblings are never going to succeed in their lives"

• Self-punishment: "This constant tiredness have to mean that I must have a serious disease"

A mental experience always feels very real. But feelings do not come from events or objects. The feelings describes more what kind of attitude you have than what is actually happening.

It's all in your mind!

THIS IS MY FAVOURITE APHORISM! positive energy -> positivity

<3 love <3

 

Vintage fashion makes me Dream and Feel

My love for style and fashion stems from the old times elegance and glamour. Classical femininity shows that you know your value. In my opinion a woman has great taste of style when she looks sensual with concealing clothes on.

In the vintage dressing there’s something real, genuine, because you truly express the time, thoughts, style, feelings. The clothes tell a story.

Still today you should enjoy the clothes: With your dressing you can express a statement, value, sophistication, personality, the "inner" you and/or your feelings of course. You can give something about yourself.

Some of my favourite time period inspirations right now:

 

Neoclassicism (1790-1800)

This time period suits the kind of message I want to convey: Tenderness, sensitivity and a piece of heaven.

 

 Nowadays the maxi-dress, which is starting to become a classic. 

The maxi-dress inspires me, because I'm a dreamer... Who wouldn't feel like a princess in an honest dress.

Rachel Zoe is the celebity who comes to my mind when I think about maxi-dresses. I love her style

You can wear a maxi-dress on a regular week day - it's practical and you look great, because you can modify really easily almost as you wish. If you are apple shaped the maxi dress can anyway lengthen your legs and make you look thinner.

Coco Chanel 1920-1954 

 

Studying the history you will find out what kind of style you like.My style is feministic and classy combined with modern bling and/or edge.

One of the best classic designers is Coco Chanel. You don't have to think about what's in fashion when you're wearing Chanel.

 

This is ART

LOOK AT THIS SOPHISTICATION! This is how women should look like on the workplace today :)

 

Chanel today:

 

Chanel has been true to it's precious, original style

Sarah Jessica Parker wearing a modern version of Chanel's classical suit

1930-1939: The simple and elegant woman

The 30’s stock market crash made the beauty standards change towards a very slim silhouettes, softened by e.g. furs in the sleeves. I love this kind of style. Simplicity is beautiful. And the costumes were tailormade.

Nowadays classic: Slim dresses, furs and scarves.

 

Kate Middleton loves the slim silhouette - I can't blame her

 

 

Classicism: 1930-1944

This style is like a Greece Goddess –style. Suits lots of women: pure lines

 

What could be more classical than the trenchcoat? You can even see the gorgeous hour-glass figure.

Christian Dior! The New Look style (1947-1955): 

wide hem and soft, round shoulderline

What makes a style? - SIMPLICITY, GREAT TASTE and GROOMED ESSENCE

Dior knew how to make a woman look like a lady

I like Dior also because he had a true fashion for beauty. He wanted every woman to look and feel as beautiful as possible.

 Dior's simple elegance today:

Lovely femininity, yet personal!

Dior is popular today among celebrities. Every woman could probably wear this jacket!

Simple beauty

1948-1959

Tailormade clothing was popular again. Architectural shapes and sculptural silhouette – I love it

 

Nowadays: The pencil skirt

 This style suits the petite Victoria Beckham. The pencil skirt makes a perfect silhouette.

This kind of classical silhouette is a great choice for lots of occassions!

Olivia Palermo proves that you don't have to show skin to be sexy and sensual

The actress Nikki Reed shows true style: Classy silhouette combined with a mix of "soft" and "hard" is interesting and looks great

A bolder choice if you want to show some attitude! Kate Hudson rocks the leather skirt.

Already Marilyn knew it - She was never out of fashion and still she's perfect!

The standards of beauty have changed over time, but the history of fashion shows that everyone can look beautiful.

Nowadays you can dress as you want, but only in vintage stores clothes are unique. So if you really want to be personal you have to look at the history, be creative and make your style, more or less, yourself. Choose clothes, which suit you!